Divorce is rarely easy. It’s often emotional, complex, and life-changing, and can lead to costly, time-consuming court proceedings. But does it have to be destructive? As Resolution’s Good Divorce Week (10–15 November 2025) reminds us, there is a better way — one that prioritises dignity, respect, and the wellbeing of everyone involved, especially children.
At its heart, a “good divorce” is not about perfection. It’s about minimising conflict, protecting children, and helping couples move forward constructively. It’s about recognising that while a relationship may be ending, the family doesn’t have to fall apart.
The introduction of no-fault divorce in England and Wales means that couples no longer need to assign blame to separate legally, removing a major source of tension and allowing for a more respectful process. This change has opened the door to more collaborative approaches — and a growing awareness that court isn’t the only route.
At Whitehead Monckton, we’ve seen firsthand how approaches like mediation, collaborative law, and the increasingly popular ‘One Lawyer, One Couple’ process can transform the experience of separation. These approaches encourage open dialogue, reduce adversarial tactics, and help couples reach agreements that work for them.
As proud members of Resolution, we follow a Code of Practice that promotes a constructive, non-confrontational approach to family law. This means:
This isn’t just a set of ideals — it’s a practical framework that guides how we work, day in and day out.
It’s also why we support Good Divorce Week: to raise awareness of these values and encourage more families to explore a better way to separate.
Yes — but it takes commitment. A good divorce doesn’t mean there’s no pain or disagreement. It means those challenges are handled with care, professionalism, and a focus on resolution rather than anger.
It’s possible when both parties are willing to engage constructively. It’s possible when legal professionals prioritise solutions over point-scoring. And it’s possible when the process is designed to support — not escalate — the emotional journey of separation.
For many couples, the key lies in early legal advice. Understanding your options from the outset can prevent misunderstandings, reduce stress, and help you avoid the courtroom altogether. That’s why we encourage potential referrers — from financial advisers to therapists — to connect clients with Resolution members early in the process.
This year’s Good Divorce Week celebrates the Year of the Code — a reminder of the values that underpin constructive family law. It’s a chance for professionals across the sector to share experiences, raise awareness, and promote alternatives to court-based separation.
Whether you’re a fellow lawyer, a referrer, or someone facing separation, we invite you to be part of the conversation. Because a good divorce isn’t just possible — it’s essential.
