Divorce is often seen as a battle — two sides, two lawyers, and a courtroom. But it doesn’t have to be that way. Collaborative law encourages separating couples to work together on settling their matrimonial issues, rather than using the courts.
If you and your partner want to avoid court and are willing to work together to resolve your issues, Collaborative Law could be the right path.
Collaborative Law is a legal process where both partners commit to resolving their separation through open discussion and mutual agreement — not through court proceedings. Each person has their own specially trained collaborative lawyer (appointed from separate firms), and you both agree to work together in a series of structured meetings.
The goal? To reach fair, lasting solutions that work for both of you — and your family.
These meetings may also include other professionals, such as financial advisers or family therapists, to help you make informed decisions about children, finances, and the future.
If you reach an agreement, the lawyers can then prepare all the necessary court documents and assist you with ensuring that your agreement is converted into a binding court order.
At Whitehead Monckton, our Family lawyers are proud members of Resolution and follow its Code of Practice — promoting honesty, respect, and constructive communication in family law. Collaborative Law is one of the most powerful ways we help couples separate with dignity.
Collaborative Law works best when both partners are willing to engage openly and respectfully. It’s ideal for couples who want to stay in control, avoid court, and protect their family relationships — especially where children are involved.
If you’re considering divorce or separation and want to explore a more peaceful way forward, we’re here to help. We’ll explain your options and guide you through the process with care and clarity.
Divorce doesn’t have to be a fight. It can be a conversation.
