If you’re facing divorce, you may be wondering: does it have to be a battle? Do we really need two lawyers, two sides, and a courtroom?
The answer is no — not always. There’s a growing movement toward a more collaborative, less confrontational way to separate. And one of the most promising options is the “One Lawyer, One Couple” approach.
This method allows both partners to work with a single legal professional who guides you through the process together.
Instead of each person hiring their own lawyer, you work with one specially trained lawyer who acts as a neutral facilitator. They provide legal advice to you both, to help you understand your options, and support you in reaching fair agreements — without taking sides.
They can assist with all steps including starting the divorce application and submitting your financial agreement to the court for court approval.
It’s not suitable for every situation. If there’s a significant power imbalance, domestic abuse, or complex disputes, separate representation may be necessary. But for couples who feel able to work together to resolve all issues fairly and amicably there can be significant cost savings, as one lawyer’s costs are shared equally.
This choice is ideal for those who wish to reach an agreement without having to go to court, giving you more control over your situation and less conflict with the other person.
At Whitehead Monckton, we offer this service as part of our commitment to Resolution’s Code of Practice — a set of values that puts respect, honesty, and constructive communication at the heart of family law.
This November, Resolution’s Good Divorce Week (10–15 Nov) is shining a light on approaches like “One Lawyer, One Couple” — showing that divorce doesn’t have to mean conflict. It can be handled with dignity, clarity, and care.
If you and your partner are considering separation and want to explore a more collaborative route, we’re here to help. We’ll guide you through your options and support you in finding a way forward that works for both of you.
Because a good divorce isn’t just possible — it’s essential.
