When separating couples face disputes over finances or children, the idea of going to court can feel daunting. Long delays, rising costs, and emotional strain often make litigation the least attractive option. But there are alternatives — and two of the most effective are Private Financial Dispute Resolution (pFDR) hearings and family arbitration.
These options offer faster, more flexible ways to resolve issues.
A Private FDR is a confidential hearing where you both present your financial positions to an experienced family lawyer acting as a private judge. It’s similar to the court-based FDR stage — but held privately, at a time and place that suits you.
The judge gives a non-binding indication of what a court might decide, helping couples reach agreement without further litigation. It’s often quicker, more focused, and more constructive than waiting for a court date.
Private FDRs are particularly useful in financial disputes, helping couples avoid the cost and stress of a full trial.
Arbitration is a formal process where you both agree to appoint a qualified arbitrator to make a legally binding decision. It’s similar to going to court — but faster, more flexible, and entirely private.
You can use arbitration to resolve issues around finances, property, or children. The arbitrator listens to both sides, considers the evidence, and makes a decision that’s enforceable in law.
Whitehead Monckton Family lawyers help clients explore these options as part of our commitment to constructive, solutions-focused family law. As Resolution members, we believe in reducing conflict and empowering couples to resolve disputes with dignity.
Private FDRs and arbitration aren’t suitable for everyone. But for many couples, they offer a smarter, calmer way to move forward.
If you’re facing a dispute and want to avoid lengthy court proceedings, we’re here to guide you through your options.
Because resolving things well matters — for your future, your family, and your peace of mind.
